Its very quiet for how powerful the vibrator is. It is pretty silent for what it is! The magnet is also very strong, it keeps it in place and it doesn't slip out of place. The battery life is lasts for awhile. Only charged it once since i got it and i havent needed to charge it again, used it several times since and its still going strong. The charger is magnetic too and its easy to use. It comes with a remote control, you dont need the remote for it to function though it works without it too, but the remote is very convenient regardless if ur using this with someone else or using it solo. The remote is very responsive AND it works at a surprising distance. The remote control works all the way from the other room. Very happy with this fun little thing.?