This is the first real "toy" my husband and I have purchased other than rings and different gels. It appears bigger in the pictures on the listing and even customers pix. When I opened it I was shocked how little it was. I was worried about its true size but it's not large at all. Comes in a box that doesn't advertise its contents. Comes with a little draw string carry bag as well. The remote works to change the vibration patterns. There is a few patterns to choose from and you can change it directly on the device with the power button as well. I chose the purple one and it's as pictures a dark purple. My husband was so excited we tried it the first night we got it. He loves getting to hold the remote. It's great to spice up foreplay, great to help you finish off during sex and is ever awesome to use by yourself. I've used it all 3 ways and I was not disappointed. Its really soft and smooth but make sure you are good and wet before trying to slip it in. As for charging it, at first i didnt understand how to charge it because the charger hole looked sealed and I couldn't open it. But you just push the charger into the DC hole and pushes in until you feel it click and a light flashes on the device. Flashing light is charging, constant light means its fully charged. After you remove the charger it seals itself back up perfectly. I've washed it with warm water and soap after every use and its held up just fine. The string at the end is very sturdy and I'm not worried about it coming off anytime soon. I recommend this 100% to anyone looking for a good toy to spice it up with your partner or you just need alittle friend when your alone at night.As for Kegals I haven't used it for that yet. But when its inside of you you barely even feel it. You can hear the vibrating though so it's not discreet. I can feel it vibrating as well if I place my hand on my tailbone.Remote food not work out of the box nor when I changed the batteryMaybe for Kegels if you were pregnant, and are trying to tighten. but this is too big for me to use on g spot... Update: this is definitely quiter than the other 2 vibrating bullet toys i have for clit. I used this on the outside for clitoral stimulation, it was 2am & i was next to my partner in bed this is whisper quiet, the sound& vibration did not wake him upI bought this for my hunny, she loves it when I play with her. Everything works the way it says. Do recomend for couples. Maybe get a gift for your lady friend friend? 5⭐sI thought that this product looked perfect due to its shape and size.. idk if we all have different frames, but my body has a hard to holding it inside.. it’s not falling out or anything but it’s very hard to keep in because my muscles can’t hold this giant thing. Which I guess is the point but the product advertises that you can go to work for the day with it in. Nut uhh… not unless my face looks like I’m holding my breath and I start waddling lol.BUT for home use, it’s perfect to do the exercises while cleaning or even watching tv. I guess I don’t have a love or a hate relationship with this product. I’m sure we are all shaped differently!Me llegó, bien, funcionó bien luego del trabajo y en la casa y privacidad lo probé, se siente bien pero el control no me funcionó... Sirve con batería de reloj, se lo cambiaré espero que funcioneWorks as advertised, but it is kind of loud. no hiding this baby when it's on. I like the different settings and speeds, but it can't be used in public because it is so loud.It’s good